At Darus Saulieghien Quraan Academy, we take pride in nurturing not only the academic and spiritual growth of our students but also their character. Being a student of knowledge is a noble pursuit in Islam, and with it comes the responsibility of upholding proper etiquette, or adab. As we learn and grow, our manners are just as important as our knowledge, shaping who we become and how we impact the world around us.
Why Etiquette Matters for Students of Knowledge
Seeking knowledge is an act of worship and an investment in our Akhirah (Hereafter). The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) emphasized the importance of good manners and respect in every aspect of life, especially in the pursuit of knowledge. By observing the right etiquette, students earn the blessings of Allah and develop into respectful, disciplined, and compassionate individuals.
The Prophet (SAW) said:
“The best among you are those who learn the Qur’an and teach it.”
(Sahih Bukhari)
But learning the Qur’an and other forms of sacred knowledge is not just about memorization or understanding; it’s about embodying the teachings and approaching knowledge with humility and gratitude.
Essential Etiquette for Young Seekers of Knowledge
- Respect Your Teachers
- Always greet your teachers with salaam and listen attentively when they are speaking.
- Never interrupt or speak over your teachers. Wait patiently to ask questions and show gratitude for their efforts in teaching.
- Remember, teachers are a means through which Allah imparts knowledge, and treating them with respect earns you great rewards.
- Value Time
- Arrive on time for classes and use your study hours wisely. Wasting time not only delays your progress but also shows a lack of appreciation for the opportunity to learn.
- Be disciplined with your schedule and make the most of the time allocated for both your studies and breaks.
- Maintain Cleanliness and Neatness
- Keep yourself, your books, and your learning space clean. This reflects your respect for the knowledge you are seeking.
- Dress modestly and appropriately, following the guidelines of Islamic attire, and ensure your uniform is neat.
- Have a Sincere Intention
- Always purify your intention before seeking knowledge. Your aim should be to please Allah, benefit yourself and others, and become a better Muslim.
- Remind yourself that the pursuit of knowledge is an act of worship, not just a duty.
- Be Humble and Open to Learning
- Knowledge should humble us, not make us arrogant. Recognize that there is always more to learn and that true knowledge comes from Allah.
- Be open to correction and constructive feedback, and learn from your mistakes without feeling disheartened.
- Respect Your Classmates
- Treat your fellow students with kindness and respect. Avoid arguments, bullying, or making fun of others.
- Help one another in learning and be a source of positive support. Remember, you are all on the same journey of seeking knowledge.
Practical Tips for Parents
Parents play a crucial role in reinforcing these etiquettes at home. Here’s how you can support your children:
- Model Good Behavior: Demonstrate respect, patience, and gratitude in your daily interactions, so your child learns by example.
- Discuss Intentions: Talk about the importance of pure intentions before starting any lesson, and remind your child that seeking knowledge is a way to please Allah.
- Encourage Gratitude: Remind your child to thank their teachers and classmates and to appreciate the gift of learning.
The Beauty of Good Manners
At DSQA, we believe that students who embody good manners will not only succeed academically but also leave a positive impact on their families, communities, and the Ummah as a whole. Knowledge without adab is incomplete, and it is our duty to raise a generation of learners who understand and live by this principle.
May Allah bless our students with the love of knowledge and the beauty of good character. Together, let’s continue to nurture a respectful, disciplined, and faith-driven learning environment.